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    The Real Estate Mind Game: Decisions of the Head
    By Cheryl Young
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    Real estate can be one of the most stable methods of investing today.  Unlike the “wows” of the stock market, real estate can be a consistent way for people to extend their wealth ratio.  However, many new investors make the mistake of investing with their heart instead of their head. An old cliché reminds us that “You make your money in real estate when you BUY, not when you SELL.” With that in mind, it is important that we make good BUYING decisions in everything, especially with real estate.

     

    And it’s your mind that must be ready to play the game. If you invest with your heart, you will make decisions based on what you feel.  And soon . . . what you feel will get you into investments that you should never have considered.  Mixing business with emotions worn on your sleeve can mean you'll constantly be hurt. Sometimes it’s impossible to divorce the two – but it’s usually a formula for problems.

     

    Think Outside the Box

    One of the hardest things for new investors to do is to “Think Outside the Box.”  Many of us operate everyday the same way we did yesterday. Why? Because it’s the most comfortable way to operate.  But if you choose to play The Real Estate Mind Game, you will have to be as creative as possible and even invent new ways in your mind that you can accomplish the same task.  The key to remember is to learn something new everyday until you routinely expand your comfort zone.

     

    First let’s focus on practicing the art of thinking outside of the box.  To begin to develop new habits, you must be willing to be more creative and operate outside the normal realm.  Perhaps you can start by stretching your comfort zone to do things you would not ordinarily do.

     

    It’s a known fact that if you can repeat an activity for 18 or more consecutive days, you have a new habit in the making.  So try these few exercises (or create a few of your own) for the next 18 days to jumpstart a new level of operating:

     

    1. Go home a different way every day and see all the potential opportunities that exist around you
    2. Exercise an hour earlier in the morning and learn a different exercise that will work a different part of your body every other day
    3. Go to the grocery store and reverse the path you typically take through the store
    4. Mail your letters at a different post office than the one you normally use
    5. Generate multiple solutions as a way to resolve daily issues
    6. Learn one new idea or concept every day to increase your creativity
    7. Use your opposite hand to eat, drink, pick up mail or papers or books

     

    Now, fast forward this mental process to real estate investing.

     

    When we first began studying the markets and actively looking for investment opportunities, we looked at everything.  We really had not (yet) totally grasped the idea that (more often than not) deals are made, not born.  So we analyzed every deal that was presented to us.  At that time, it did two things for us:  (1) We got used to looking at multiple deals everyday and analyzing how we could make them work for us (extending our analysis comfort zone to process information quicker) and (2) we practiced using our minds (not our hearts) to create as many ways as we could to get into the deal.  Our deal acceptance ratio today is significantly higher than when we first began.

     

    By the end of that first year in business, we were better at pricing and getting into deals.  It wasn’t until we knew we needed to generate cash and cash flow that we realized that we had not practiced exploring all the various exit strategies – whether we needed to employ them or not. This is even more important than the entry into a deal, because how you exit will fundamentally determine how you will enter a deal.  When we made this connection, an entirely new world of thinking opened up to us.  That’s when we knew our mind was expanding – and our emotions were being managed.

     

    Decisions of the Head vs. Decisions of the Heart

    The key to knowing and making decisions of the head is to know yourself and your tolerances.  Many of us don’t spend enough time to get to know ourselves. Believe it or not, not knowing yourself will lead to many a ‘heart’ decision because you will ultimately do what feels right to do, even if your head is telling you to go the other way.

     

    Compare the following and see where you fit…

     

    A head decision tells you that you are insane to think that if you don’t take action to change your life, that it will just change automatically.

     

    A heart decision will tell you to stay where you are because you need benefits or a steady paycheck.  Consider this: we are all good leaders and followers at something depending upon our comfort level and what we choose to do with our talent.

     

    A head decision will tell you that you need to change the way you are operating because you are getting nowhere faster today than you did yesterday.

     

    A heart decision will ask you when do you have the time to introduce anything new into your already busy life.

     

    A head decision will tell you to investigate all the possible avenues to maximize your opportunity.

     

    A heart decision will compel you to ask what other people think about your opportunity – regardless of the fact that it’s ultimately your decision. (This can be a very dangerous place to be because chances are you’ve already made up your mind and anyone who invalidates your decision or thinking is somehow attacking you. (Your heart can be attacked but your mind can be challenged.)

     

    A head decision will allow you to discern good information from bad – regardless of where it comes from – and determine what is in your best interest at this time.

     

    A heart decision will cause you feel intimidated by people around you who may know more than you and operate at a higher level. The thing to remember is that we are all infants in some areas of our lives and adults in other areas . . . and where you are in your thought process doesn’t have any bearing on who you are.

    Remember, people often criticize in others the very things that are lacking in them.  It’s not because you are worse off, but because they are no better off.  Don’t fall into that trap. Experience the exhilaration that comes from being around people who can take you to the next level.

     

    A head decision will tell you the numbers surrounding a deal do not really produce your desired result.

     

    A heart decision will tell you to go ahead with your deal and the numbers ‘will work themselves out.’

     

    A head decision will tell you that “money pit” is written all over the deal.

     

    A heart decision will tell you that you need to “up” your offer because this is really the deal of a lifetime and you do not want it to slip away.

     

    A savvy investor will be able to marry both head and heart decisions to logical and sound next actions.  You can’t become a savvy investor if you read all the books in the world on investing and never do a single deal.  Lessons can’t be learned if you fail to extend yourself beyond your comfort zone.  Why?  Because what you do should always push the boundries of your comfort zone, which incidentally, is based on emotions.

     

    Wisdom doesn’t come by osmosis but rather by studying and actively applying what you’ve learned everyday and surrounding yourself with people who are doing what you ultimately want to do.  This may occur by changing the people with whom you currently associate so that you are in an environment conducive to change and expansion.

     

    Remember, you have to continually challenge yourself to win the ‘mind over what really matters’ game – everyday.  Enjoy learning


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